Is happiness the real purpose of marriage? 

We sometimes say we leave marriages because we are no longer happy and God wants us to be happy. How true is this statement though? Are we supposed to be getting married to be happy? Shouldn't we be happy beings before getting married? Placing this much responsibility of your own happiness on another party is… Continue reading Is happiness the real purpose of marriage? 

Life, Relationships

I have a new name…

Upon a cross they hung a man who redefined who I am! I have worn the label 'divorcee' with so much regret, shame, guilt, condemnation, and humiliation. I use the word 'worn' because that's exactly what I feel I did. I woke up each morning and put on the label as one would wear a… Continue reading I have a new name…

BookWorm, Relationships

The Wait (Devon Franklin & Meagan Good)

Courtesy of Itumeleng Sibiya who was generous enough to buy me this book as it was being released in the States, what a gem it's been. I have absolutely loved reading this book. For a celebrity couple, practicing celibacy would be the last thing one would associate with Hollywood. The book has so many treasures… Continue reading The Wait (Devon Franklin & Meagan Good)


When is the right time to have a DTR?

I must say that a DTR is a new concept in my vocab. Excuse my delayed reaction because I hear it is quite an old phenomenon. So, a DTR is a conversation people have to Define The Relationship. Usually, this kind of conversation is held by a couple who feel they need to have clarity… Continue reading When is the right time to have a DTR?